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Making the first date with Asian women easier

If you want some tips on making the first date with Asian women a little easier, you’re in luck!  Almost everyone feels a little nervous when going on a first date with any woman, so you’re not alone.

First date

We have put some great tips together to make your first date with Asian women go a little more smoothly, so relax and have fun!

  • Make plans.  If you are in the same area, touch base to find out what she might want to do.  This way, some of the guesswork is taken out of the equation.  If you are traveling to China to meet her, it is even more important to have some sort of plans laid out.
  • Stay simple.  Everyone loves a romantic first date, and some Chinese women love to get swept off their feet.  However, a complicated plan can be stressful, so keep it simple for the first time.  Plan something fun such as dinner, a movie, or a festival.
  • Don’t sweat it.  As hard as it is to remember, the first date really isn’t a big deal.  It is really just two people getting to know each other while doing something fun.  Keep this in mind and it will make it easier to get through the evening.
  • Just be yourself.  Although she’s already got an idea of who you are and what you like to do based on your profile and online conversations, she still doesn’t know you.  The key is to remember to be yourself and things will work out.
  • Focus on her.  On the date, don’t talk about yourself unless she asks.  It’s a good time to focus on her and concentrate on what she’s saying.  You’ll thank us later!

Good luck!

Common myths about Chinese women

It is not unusual to see Western men dating chinese women. Chinese women are smart, perceptive, beautiful, fun, and appreciative, so it is no surprise that they attract a wide range of admirers.

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Like the stereotype of the type of Western men who like to date Chinese women, there are many myths surrounding what a Chinese woman is actually like.  Here’s a look at some of the most common misconceptions:

Myth #1:  Chinese women make perfect wives.

Back in 500 B.C., Confucius described the perfect Asian wife as one who is loyal, caring, and looks up to her husband in perfect harmony.  Things have changed since then; most Chinese women are modern, but they do respect family values and traditions.  However, it is important to remember that many of these women believe in the equality between a husband and a wife.

Myth #2:  Chinese women are submissive and sweet.

The modern Chinese woman is often sweet, loving, and loyal, but she can also be pragmatic, realistic, and strong.  The stereotype of the submissive Chinese wife with bound feet is not the norm, so men looking for such a woman could be disappointed and might prefer sticking to the pages of Pearl Buck’s The Good Earth.

Myth #3:  The American man is her only ticket to a better life.

Although there are some Chinese women who want to marry American men and go on to live the great American dream, this is primarily a myth.  Like women anywhere else in the world, many Chinese women are just looking for love.  They can have a great life in China, but those who fall in love with an American often end up living in the U.S.

Just remember, it is important not to pigeonhole a Chinese woman to any one idea. Take the time to get to know her and find out what makes her unique.

Why American men love single Asian women

Lots of American men love single Asian women, but why?  Here are some reasons why American men love dating Chinese girls, read on to see if you can join their ranks:

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  1. Chinese women are adorable.  A lot of Asian women take pride in their appearance.  In the Chinese culture, being beautiful and feminine is what gives these women power and value.  In an effort to make themselves seem even more adorable, they act in a cutesy way that really drives American guys wild!
  2. A fresh take on gender roles. Western culture can seem very patriarchal and certain American men want something more.  However, despite the fact that many women are now working in China, their role is typically to rule over the household, organize their husbands’ money, and decide what their children study.  It is actually a very matriarchal society.
  3. Chinese women are excited about American culture.  In recent years, single Asian women have become more excited about Western culture than ever before.  This means that the interest American men have in Asian women is reciprocated, thus allowing for more happy romantic relationships than just a few years ago.
  4. Good Chinese food!  Everyone knows that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach and many Chinese women know their way around the kitchen.  Of course, not every Chinese girl is a top chef – that would be impossible – but many of them have learned how to make traditional foods amazingly.

Want to meet Asian women?

If you’re interested in learning how to meet Asian women, you’re not alone.  Let’s face it; Asian women are some of the most attractive and exotic ladies in the world – something that a lot of guys are into.  However, this exotic beauty can be intimidating, which is why we’ve got some tips for you.

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Techniques to keep in mind

Not every Asian woman is the same, so remember that these techniques might not necessarily work on everyone.  Many Asian households are very strict on their daughters, which makes them more timid than Western women, so it is alright to be dominant and direct, but in a respectful way.  Taking a romantic approach is also a good trick – many Asian ladies are soppy romantics at heart, so a little chivalry and wooing will go a long way.

Where to meet Asian women

One of the most obvious places to meet Asian women is in their native country; so if you don’t mind travelling, get your passport and any required visas for your next trip.  Simply heading out to an Asian nation won’t guarantee you meet someone, so it might be best to stick to online dating at first.  Other ways to meet Asian girls is to check out an Asian bar or club.  But, meeting an Asian woman isn’t much different than meeting a Western woman – it all starts with saying, “hello!”

What not to do

There are some things that you should never do, and this pretty much goes for dating any woman at all.  Don’t tell an Asian woman you have a “thing” for Asian girls – that will definitely come off as a little creepy.  You should also do your best to stay away from talking about Asian stereotypes – they are rude and disrespectful.  Another thing to avoid – asking what her nationality is.  If she wants you to know, she’ll bring up her background and culture with you.