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Dating Asian singles and “little emperors”

For Western men, it is important to understand that dating Asian singles is a little different than dating women from their own culture.  In fact, if they’re not prepared, they may be in store for a real culture shock.

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There are so many differences between Chinese and Western culture – from the types of food to the interactions between family members.  It is particularly interesting to note how the country’s one-child policy may have actually influenced the way many of today’s Asian singles behave, especially in a romantic relationship.

The first thing to understand is that the very first generation of children born under China’s one-child policy just recently entered their early thirties.  And it is many of these individuals that are out there looking for love right now.  The policy was put into place to help control the population, and all of these only children were dubbed “little emperors” because they were coddled and spoiled by their parents.

It’s probably true that the Chinese government wasn’t thinking about the future love lives of these children when they implemented the one-child policy, but the policy has had a great impact.  This is particularly true when Chinese girls interact with their boyfriends.  They like to ‘sajiao,’ or act like a spoilt child – tantrums and all.  It is customary for the men to ‘honghong,’ or comfort and humor them.

This type of behavior can seem shocking to Westerners, especially to those unfamiliar with the Chinese culture.  Some men find the behavior childish and disrespectful – if that is the case, he may want to consider dating women from a different culture. However, for those men that are willing to embrace and learn about the Chinese customs and seek out Asian singles, he may be rewarded with a very beautiful, loyal, and loving wife someday!

Want to meet Asian women?

If you’re interested in learning how to meet Asian women, you’re not alone.  Let’s face it; Asian women are some of the most attractive and exotic ladies in the world – something that a lot of guys are into.  However, this exotic beauty can be intimidating, which is why we’ve got some tips for you.

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Techniques to keep in mind

Not every Asian woman is the same, so remember that these techniques might not necessarily work on everyone.  Many Asian households are very strict on their daughters, which makes them more timid than Western women, so it is alright to be dominant and direct, but in a respectful way.  Taking a romantic approach is also a good trick – many Asian ladies are soppy romantics at heart, so a little chivalry and wooing will go a long way.

Where to meet Asian women

One of the most obvious places to meet Asian women is in their native country; so if you don’t mind travelling, get your passport and any required visas for your next trip.  Simply heading out to an Asian nation won’t guarantee you meet someone, so it might be best to stick to online dating at first.  Other ways to meet Asian girls is to check out an Asian bar or club.  But, meeting an Asian woman isn’t much different than meeting a Western woman – it all starts with saying, “hello!”

What not to do

There are some things that you should never do, and this pretty much goes for dating any woman at all.  Don’t tell an Asian woman you have a “thing” for Asian girls – that will definitely come off as a little creepy.  You should also do your best to stay away from talking about Asian stereotypes – they are rude and disrespectful.  Another thing to avoid – asking what her nationality is.  If she wants you to know, she’ll bring up her background and culture with you.