As you may have already figured out, dating single Asian women is often a little different than dating single white women, partially because China is a very old nation with thousands of years of continuous tradition.
Though the basics of dating are pretty much the same, there are quite a few things that are different about dating single Asian women. Here are some examples:
- When dating begins. In China, college entrance examinations are top priority, so dating is typically not tolerated among high school students. This doesn’t mean that Chinese women don’t have teenage crushes; it just means that they enter college with a lot less romantic experience than women in other countries.
- There’s a purpose. In China, people tend to take a very pragmatic approach to dating. Often, dating isn’t as much about finding a soul mate as it is about finding a marriage partner that meshes with one’s ideals and stability.
- Parents are involved. Though all parents are different, in China, they are often more involved in their children’s romantic relationships. In the United States, this is often seen as meddling, but in China, it is sometimes welcomed.
- In the bedroom. Typically, premarital sex is pretty rare in China, and is taken more seriously than it is in most Western cultures. Though attitudes toward sexual activity are changing, many Chinese women view sex as a stepping-stone to marriage.
- The ultimate goal. Throughout China, the primary goal of most romantic relationships is marriage – and lots of Chinese young adults are under familial pressure to find a good spouse. This is particularly true for ‘leftover’ women – those who are pushing 30 but still haven’t landed a man.
Sure, these things are all generalizations, and certainly do not apply to every single Chinese person out there, but they are worth mentioning since it may help make some of those cultural nuances a little easier to understand.